
Have you ever been faced with the decision of having to choose between two different things?
As students, I am quite sure there have been days when we were torn between watching the new episode of Gossip Girl or going back to the salt mines and start studying for our upcoming exams. If the world was perfect, we could have it all. Unfortunately, it isn’t and life is all about making choices. So, if you choose to find out whether or not Nate and Serena hook up, you lose out on the opportunity of having more time to study (and possibly even a higher grade). However, if you suppress your urge to procrastinate and study, then you miss out on some Gossip Girl action.
Of course, not all issues tend to be that trivial. There are some decisions that have to be made which could affect the entire course of your life. Every now and then, these missed opportunities could be a cause of regret for us. For some, it might have been a choice between entering Ateneo or LaSalle (but of course, we all know that’s not even a debatable question… right guys? Haha!), remain in the country or study abroad, maybe even a choice between love or your career (do I detect a tinge of bitterness? Ahem ahem. I’m kidding.) A few minutes ago, I was faced with the dilemma of having to finish my Political Science paper or posting a blog entry. Well, you guys can pretty much tell what decision I made.

I am someone who is not too keen on regrets. In fact, I think there’s no point looking back in the past and mulling about missed chances because what’s done is done. Recently however, I’ve come to understand that one way or the other, we end up with regrets. If you choose to be content, you’ll miss out on what could have been if you kept going. If you don’t choose contentment, then you also miss out on the opportunity to experience what satisfaction can bring you. Quite a pessimistic take on things huh? Point is, we all miss out on something if we choose to give it up for another choice.
I can regale you with my stories of missed chances (and lost loves? I digress.) But I think it would be better to just cut my entry short, so I can leave you time to think and reflect about your own missed chances, regrets (maybe for some), or upcoming decisions you need to make.
















